← Ways of Wa/onderment


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Somatic Gendering Practices, stories of becoming, and playful experiments for noticing how we gender.

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Where do you notice gender moving?

Through colour, posture, fantasy, style, rhythm, exertion, texture, weather, relationship, or play?

Somatic Gendering is the fertile practice-ground where I brought deeper intention and new somatic skills to the ways I was already noticing gender and aliveness, alongside my own transformations and experimentations.

It is an emergent body of practices, stories of becoming, and playful experiments shaped by what became perceptible through practice. Play lends levity to serious material, and enough spaciousness to move.

Gender rarely moves alone. It travels with pleasure, scars, hormones, surgery, grief, intimacy, anger, memory, fantasy, community, medical systems, and being witnessed. The invitation is not to arrive at one correct answer about identity, but to notice what is yours, what creates a lean-in or recoil, and what you want to practise next.

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Follow the colour

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Begin where you are

Gender Revelry

Three practices for meeting gender through sensation, pleasure, curiosity, and the body's changing language.

Enter Gender Revelry →

HRT Journey Tracking

A detailed, multifaceted companion for witnessing hormones alongside cycles, moon, energy, mood, surprise, sex drive, sleep, movement, body, and whatever else becomes meaningful.

Open HRT Journey Tracking →

Travel deeper

Enter a fuller journey through sensation, gendering glimmers, pleasure, embodied yes, and body-led exploration.

Join the Introduction to Somatic Gendering ecourse →

Bring Gender at Play to your group

Invite me to shape one online class, a short constellation, a six-session arc, or something made with the people you gather.

Open the facilitation invitation →


Stories of becoming

Tracking can be devotional witnessing rather than mere data collection. These chronicles hold changes as they were lived: bodily, erotic, practical, contradictory, funny, ordinary, and unfinished.

Gender Journey

A month-by-month Testosterone Chronicle from 2019–2020: voice, appetite, sleep, genitals, mood, body, creativity, medical information, and the meanings made alongside change.

Enter the Testosterone Chronicle →

Testosterone, solo pleasure & creative reawakening

A story about hormones, erotic practice, documentation, changing sensation, and creativity returning through the body.

Read the story →

Work with me

Explore Somatic Gendering through individualized body-led coaching online.

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